雞仔嘜

當愛情遭遇現實

很多時候愛情是一種理想，得到它的人會擁有幸福，失去它的人會暗自神傷。有些人用盡一生去找尋，有些人得到過卻未曾珍惜，愛情是永恒的話題，是人生一道最亮麗的風景綫。

誰願意為了誰畫地為牢，誰會為了誰至死不渝，誰會為了誰傾其所有。這樣的愛若是真的存在又有幾個人能够承受，能够珍惜。當激情一點點的褪去了，那些漫長的爭吵，無邊的沉默，又有幾個人還記得當初的美好。

時間在變，空間在變，人心也在轉變。没有無緣無故的愛，也没有無緣無故的恨。人生就是這樣，看得太清楚了，一切都是假的了。寧願活在夢里不睜開雙眼，欺騙自己有的時候是一種解脫。

人都抵抗不住誘惑，能够抵抗只能說明籌碼不够多。誰都不是聖人，更何况連聖人都有犯錯的時候，人世間的事情往往說不清道不明，没有道理可循。愛情慢慢變得世俗變得不堪，究竟是誰的錯，還是現實犯的錯。

人的本性是自私的，每個人都會有底綫，超越了就會痛苦不堪。愛情也是如此，付出需要回報，愛情才能够長久；愛情需要經營，任何一方的疏忽都會讓愛情之花變得枯萎。道理是這樣的簡單，但是做起來卻是相當的困難。

無論當初的愛情是怎樣的轟轟烈烈，最終要走向的無可避免的平淡，有些人會把握愛情就轉變成了親情，不會把握的就只能眼睜睜的將那些美好變成了虚妄。面對現實的冲擊，那些甜言蜜語，海誓山盟成了易碎品，顷刻間變得支离破碎，讓人不由得感傷。

愛一個人能夠愛到什麼程度，能不能為了這份愛情放棄現在擁有的一切？能不能在親情和愛情之間取捨？能不能保証一生忠貞不背叛？這樣的問題有幾個人能够回答呢，面對這樣的問題又有幾個人不會沉默呢？

當愛情遭遇到了現實， 當愛情面對親情，友情，面對前途，面對冷嘲熱諷，又有誰還能保留那顆曾經單純的愛人的心呢？愛情是不能承受太多的壓力和苦楚的，它是温室里的花朵，經不起風吹雨打。永恒不變的愛永遠都是電視劇，而我們距离那種理想狀態太過遙遠了。

成熟的人往往只做該做的事情，而不去做想做的事情。人生就是這樣的無可奈何，太多的東西難以跨越。若人生如初見般美好，有一顆純潔没有一絲沾染的心，世間會不會就少些苦楚呢？

佛說人生有七苦：生老病死，怨憎會，恨别离，求不得。放棄一些得不到的東西，是不是就可以輕鬆一些？找一個更寵愛自己的人，是不是快樂就會多一點？學會删除一些記憶，是不是就會少一些磨難？

試着参佛不求修行，但求修心，放下心中的所有傷痛，嘗試開始換一種思維看待人生，換一種豁達的心態面對一切苦樂哀愁，淡定漂泊而不落魄。

你成熟嗎？

-遇到不想回答的問題 ：直視對方的眼睛 ，微笑、 沈默 。

-走路抬頭挺胸，心情不好時，不想跟人招呼，點頭微笑，逕直走過 。

-請記得 ：好朋友的定義是，你混的好，他打心眼裡為你開心，你混的不好，他由衷的為你著急 。

-做自己的決定 ，然後準備好承擔後果 。從一開始就提醒自己 ，世上沒有後悔藥吃， 而我永遠有個 B計劃。

-自己分內的事情 ，努力做到一百分 。

-接受自己不過是個"小小的我" ，但眼裡要能夠悅納"大大的世界" 。

-如果你真的喜歡一個人，就給他自由。如果他能回到你身邊，他就是你的，如果他沒有回來，那他也永遠不屬於你。

-不要試圖給自己找任何藉口，錯誤面前沒人愛聽那些藉口。

-不要隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的 。

-不說謊話 ，因為總有被拆穿的一天。

-別低估任何人。

-你沒那麼多觀眾 ，別那麼累 。

-過去的事情可以不忘記 ，但一定要放下。

-別人說的記在腦袋裡，而自己的， 則放在心裡。

-社會是有等級的， 很多事不公平， 別抱怨 ，因為沒有用 。

-你永遠沒有你自己想像中那麼重要 。

-錢能解決的問題統統不叫問題。

-無論何時說"我愛你"，請真心實意， 無論何時說"對不起"， 請看著對方的眼睛。

-永遠不要以貌取人，慢慢地說，但要迅速地想。

-找點時間，單獨呆會兒 。

-不是自己的東西不要 ，就是再喜歡也不行 ，要懂得放棄 。

-不要覺得是生活虧欠了你 ，其實是我做的努力不夠 。

-努力向前，再努力向前，再努力一下下，願望就會實現 ！

-永遠沒有堅持到底的失敗，也不會有半途而廢的成功。

-三人行必有我師，沒有人會比你弱，好學、上進的心態。多問問自己："我努力了沒有？

When I'm feeling blue
Lost without a clue
Sparks between our eyes
Nothing can be as true

Sing my life for you
Paintings that I drew
One plus one makes two
How I wish to caress you

Tell me where we heading to
What we do may seem so crude
Where's the "good" in our goodbyes
The time you leave is the time
You break my heart in two

[Chorus:]
Even though we're far apart
Send my love with all my heart
When you miss me at night
Look at the stars shining bright
For the times you pushed me through
All the things I do for you
Running tears from my eyes
Thinking how will I survive
Next goodbye

(Repeat)
(Chorus x2)

Oooooooooh
Goodbye...
_____________________________________________________

Recently, I try to read a lot of articles about long distance relationship.
No wonder it will be very difficult and full of challenges...
However, I do trust we can overcome that.

Sometimes, you may think a lot, worry a lot...
That's normal, because you cannot see each other often like the other couples. Your head will always pop-up various things automatically because you miss your darling so much! The best example will be when you can't connect with him/her, you may start thinking and worry for no matter what reasons...

A soup for the soul:Don't waste time on the meaningless thinking and worrying
It is really unnecessary to think and worry because what you thought and worried were unreal. Rather than spend time on the unreal thinking and worrying, why don't we do or think something that are more substantial and beneficial of the relationship?
(e.g.: How to make "a surprise" when you meet him/her next time?)

Sometimes, you may be negative
That's for sure that you will think about the future with the one you love so much. As we know, communication is so important between people. Because of the distance (e.g. Times, Works), you may not be able to share and talk with him/her all the times. More than, languages is also a problem in some of the times. You cannot share the exactly feeling from your mind even you are on the phone with your love. My mother language is Cantonese, her mother language is Korean. Even both of us can speak well in English, you will find out that it's still hard to communicate with each other in some of the occasions. As the communication barrier, you may feel hard and start to think negatively.

A soup for soul: Positive for everything
Being positive will be one of the most important thing when you have a long distance relationship. The thing is everyone know that it is always be the most easy to say the theory and hard to put them into practice. Love is both sides, so it is very important that a couple have to think positively and remind each other all the times. Another positive point is that long distance dating pushes both of you to be more creative, to communicate better since you don't have "face-to-face" time and to test (and express) your feelings. As long as you see the long-distance relationship as a temporary state, you will keep your chin up and transmit that feeling of security and happiness to your partner too.
Moreover, it is very important that You must live up to your promise
One is one, two is two. Always remember that what you can told that you can do.

Sometimes, you become a "police", ask everything...
If you love someone so much, you would like to know about everything from him/her. You are more than happy that to know about whatever from him/her even they are just the tiny tiny things.
And also, you may start to think a lot when you cannot have a good communication with him/her, "what is she doing now? Why he/she doesn't reply my text whole day?", "who will she gonna hang out with tonight?", "OMG, she is going to the club with the other boys?"
For those who love your girlfriend so much that will understand what kind of these thinking. You may start to keep asking your boyfriend and girlfriend, "where are you going tonight?" "Who are you going out with tomorrow?" "Why you didn't reply my message?"

A soup for soul: Avoid jealousy and be trusting
One of the easiest ways to destroy a perfectly healthy relationship is to poison it with jealousy and drama. When you start a long distance relationship, you must be realistic of the difficulties ahead. It always helps if you go in a relationship with the idea that everyone is innocent and worthy of trust until proven otherwise. Don't fall in the trap of interrogating your partner every time he/she decides to go out for a drink with people you haven't met or he/she didn't get back to you right away when you called and left a message. Just because you are in a long-distance relationship doesn't mean your lives will pause. Your partner will naturally have a social life where he/she lives and so should you. Sure, it helps to have your eyes open and not be totally naive, but being overly suspicious is unhealthy for you and your relationship too. You should both maintain your social activity and be happy with yourselves.

"You live too far away.
Your voice rings like a bell anyway.
Don't give up your independence, unless it feels so right.
Nothing good comes easily, sometimes you've got to fight."
"Amber" by 311

P.S. Hyu Ji 내가 널 만난건 , 운명이야...누구나 사랑을 할수있지만,난 그대가 아니면,사랑할수 없습니다. 그대만을 사랑합니다

給老婆的4個謝謝：
第一，謝謝老婆走進我的生活，也許你不是我生命中最好的，但是絕對是唯一的，也是最讓我感動的。
第二，謝謝老婆讓我走進你的生活，也許我不是你生命中最好的，但是我會做到最讓你感動的，也是最精彩的。
第三，謝謝老婆愛我，也許你不是我生命中第一個愛我的人。但是你絕對是最後一個，也是最好的一個。
第四，謝謝老婆讓我來愛你，也許我不是你生命中第一個愛你的人，但是我自信我絕對是最後一個，也是最愛你的一個！

給老婆的5個尊重：
第一，尊重老婆的思想，也許老婆的想法和自己不同，但是老婆一定對自己沒有外心，不會傷害自己。
第二，尊重老婆的愛，也許老婆的愛不是最好的，但是老婆的愛一定是自己最需要的。最感動的。
第三，尊重老婆的家，也許自己的父母比較重要，但是老婆的父母更應該重視，因為有他們，才有了自己的老婆。
第四，尊重老婆的隱私，也許很多事情自己想要知道，但是卻會傷害老婆的尊嚴。要學會相信。
第五，尊重老婆的朋友，也許老婆的朋友自己不認識，但是要想融入老婆的生活，就需要結交她的朋友。

給老婆的5點珍惜: 第一, 珍惜老婆的身體,也許人要懂得照顧自己,但是老婆的身體更需要愛護,比自己更重要!
第二, 珍惜老婆的愛好,也許自己的東西需要好好保存,但是老婆的東西更需要去珍惜.
第三, 珍惜老婆的好, 也許很多時候覺得老婆對自己好是應該的,但是別忘記這是老婆愛自己才會對自己好.
第四, 珍惜老婆的情緒,也許有時候覺得無所謂,但是就是那麼的一個不經意會傷害老婆的心.
第五, 珍惜老婆的快樂,也許有時候自己覺得一件事不值得高興,但是要明白老婆的快樂就是自己的快樂.她和自己分享快樂是愛自己的表現.別讓老婆失望!
第六, 珍惜老婆的愛, 也許會覺得老婆愛自己是天經地意的,但是別忘記了老婆對自己的付出,如果不珍惜的話,老婆可是會覺得愛自己是很不值得的哦!

給老婆的7個如果:
第一, 如果老婆病了,那麼老婆在病房裏醒後第一眼見到的就是我.
第二, 如果老婆累了,那麼老婆躺床上給老婆蓋被子的就是我.
第三, 如果老婆渴了,那麼給老婆送水的就是我.
第四, 如果老婆餓了,那麼在廚房裏忙碌的就是我.
第五, 如果老婆樂了,那麼在你旁邊聽故事的就是我.
第六, 如果老婆出門,那麼我會說:外面冷,多穿點衣服.
第七, 如果老婆回家,那麼我會說:累了吧,快躺下休息下!

給老婆的8個當你
第一, 當你冷的時候,我會給你蓋上被子.
第二, 當你累的時候,我會給你做個按摩.
第三, 當你困的時候,我會給你鋪好床單.
第四, 當你委屈時候,我會把你抱在懷裏.
第五, 當你病的時候,我會給你買藥喂水.
第六, 當你傷心時候,我會努力的逗你笑.
第七, 當你說愛我時,我會開心一整個月.
第八, 當你說不愛我,我的一生失魂落魄.

不知不覺係Regal Riverside都做咗半年，
雖然只得半年，但我都深深地體會到這裡的喜，怒，哀，樂。
工作開心故然重要，
同事好玩同夾唔夾就更加重要！
好慶幸識到你地呢班咁可愛既同事
Kinki, Nicole, Ray, Taylor, Steve, Amanda, Traze, Wing, Edith
Irene, Emily, 新哥, 阿麟, Albert, Debbie, Kobe, Geoffrey,
Kitty, Apple, Sherina, Corin, Rita, Cindy, Olivia,
Ｄ哥, 阿樹, Simon, Philips, Wing (HSKP), Rindy
Res. Katie, Margaret, Zoe, Cici, Kylie,
Andrew, Ricky, Vincent, Paul, Connie.....
仲有大佬們，Wan生, Francis, Alan, 東哥, Kenny, 金經理。
好多謝大家對我既包容，耐心，協助。
大家能夠係麗豪一起工作，都是一種緣份。
無論過往開心與否，我們一起工作，working as a team,
所經歷的都是真實且一起付出過的。
希望大家在以後的日子裡繼續堅持, 奮鬥。
在自我探索的人生旅程中，
一步一步朝著自己的理想與夢想繼續不斷邁進！

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